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GirlVersusGame

@MightyDemon82 That sounds a lot like Vkontakte, the Facebook I do have but now it's all State controlled so whatever you do post has eyes all over it. That's basically what it's like for whatever social media we have left, Facebook is banned now too, Discord comes and goes, Twitter is gone, SnapChat I think too and Instagram comes and goes. My only real experience with Facebook was watching a friend slowly go insane. Something snapped during lockdown and they started watching someone who talked about Flat Earth etc, it became all they consumed. Maybe two months ago they sent me 'videos' of giants building the pyramids. I heard they had to go away for treatment, I'm sure they already had issues but they were consuming AI videos about some absolutely insane theories and 'facts'. I understand a certain degree of crazy, but they really did go off the deep end Facebook was what started it all.

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That was one of my only experiences (days) on Western social media. That 'poshtotty' was an ex girlfriend, I told her and she went on audio-call and 'stop trying to steal my girlfriend!' It was pretty funny. He was so confused, but he shouldn't been messaging random people like that. I didn't even know him.

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The next just started asking 'what do you want?' on repeat so I said 'bring me a shrubbery', because of Monthy Python and I received that.

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I think this man tried to sell me drugs, then there were all the non PG messages and pictures. This was all in one day of joining the site so I deleted my page. Probably not for the same reason as you did but, it's weird on there. I was raised without social media, I think there were pro's and cons to that outcome.

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MightyDemon82

@GirlVersusGame Yes. That's exactly it, a lot of people go down some crazy rabbit holes with A.I. and conspiracy theories. Also you get the kind of people you mentioned there, stalking/creeping on people. One of my mum's friends isn't the brightest and since covid has been spreading the conspiracy theories she's read online. One person I know claimed they had gone off the grid, yet still had a phone and social media 🤣.

MightyDemon82

Ravix

@MightyDemon82 @GirlVersusGame

Getting off social media is very much a good idea. A celebration is in order, Demon. It was getting bad enough anyway, and it has always been bad for the female of the species, as GvG shows with the 'in just one day' part 🙈 I mean, that is just crazy, right? But I think during Covid at least 50% of people just totally lost their minds and online has been a new type of nightmare since.

You see it on Reddit, still, maybe not surprising as Reddit is both knowingly weird (and plays up to that) but it is still full of people who are actually quite sane or empathtic, or just nice, or 'in on the joke' and there for a laugh. But every so often you see someone mention as soon as they get clocked as female on a post that gets up-voted that they then get inundated with creepyness. It's crazy to me that people still can't just have a laugh online without attracting predatory or horrible behaviour.

And then the politicised stuff is the worst for normal browsing, as everyone is so ready to attack people or defend a cause they think they care about as it fills the big fudging void in their lives. That is where doom scrolling sometimes still gets me, as 'hot topics' pop up and I find myself reading these comments and just thinking "why do you have so much hate and why am I reading it" when initially I was just looking at something funny or interesting. People do crave that easy win and the spreading of their message. And I know reading that is not good for us.

Oh no, I didn't want to make a long downbeat comment, it was supposed to be the joy of Demon taking a step away from that environment 😂 it is good, positive. Yes! It does prove I still need to work on not letting my own eyes wander when on reddit when i'm just there to look at stuff that interests me and have a laugh. Same reason we tend to move away from the comments section here, I think. I'd rather be playing a Larian game than arguing about something that blew up on social media and has spread here for no reason as it is mostly just reactionary nonsense 🙈 i'd love to go and tell people to pipe down 😛 but I barely even skimmed the article as it isn't worth the brain power.

'People lose their shhhhherbert online' report below... comments open and waiting for more people to do similar. Tiring 🙃

@GirlVersusGame I was going to reply to your other comment but i've mentally drained myself 🙈 in summary though, those people were dumb as fudge, but I don't think a lot of people in online games are very nice. I mean, I played a lot of online football games, and it feels like 90% of everyone is awful, and there's only a select amount of people that like those games I can actually get on with. It probably isn't as bad in RPG's overall, but some of those messages I think seem like they are from very emotionally underdeveloped people.

I know there was tonnes more in you comment, some kind of funny in a very strange and specific way, but my brain really is like a tired, wet bag of rubbish, so I need to go play some Divinity 😄😄

Maybe we can also get you back gaming again, as you admit you haven't played much for a while. Maybe not online gaming though, something with story elements, or would you still prefer the kind of grind and craft and build stuff type of game, a kind of meditative gaming. Maybe a Larian RPG would be a good idea, but that is of course a selfish suggestion as my brain can only process so many things at once and i'm in my latest rpg fascination 😄

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GirlVersusGame

@MightyDemon82 Yes. That's exactly it, a lot of people go down some crazy rabbit holes with A.I. and conspiracy theories.

  • Is there actually a reason for that? It seems to be happening to so many people, are they trying to stitch together what ever is going on in the world today? It's just so strange that it's even happening, I've only ever seen A.I. in gaming and even that was enough. You'd think they'd naturally see through it.

One of my mum's friends isn't the brightest and since covid has been spreading the conspiracy theories she's read online. One person I know claimed they had gone off the grid, yet still had a phone and social media.

  • I Once chatted to an old woman on the DeepWeb (long story) and we were talking about CERN because I'd just done a tour and I loved it. She went down this absolutely insane rabbithole about how it was built on a portal to hell, how whatever was inside the injection was black goo from demons, that once you get that injection you inherit a demon, after about two hours she'd managed to tie it all into a train her cousin 'thinks' she saw driving past with the markings 'covid 19'. It was astonishing to just sit there and sip my drink while she just created this tapestry of wildness, she didn't know I hadn't seen the news or non-State TV in years so I had no clue what she was talking about but I found it so hard to just leave the conversation. I wanted to see what she'd say next.

She believed it all, I've talked to 'interesting' people on there but that was an experience. She was on there to hide from her government, I was on there to hide from genuine repression. I wish I logged the chat but it all wipes when you sign out. Then she tried to convince me that because there are Freemasons in my family that I'd been promised to Satan since birth, I told her I was considering joining the female arm for daughters/wives and she almost imploded. I didn't join but I did consider it. It's basically a female branch of the same Masonic order that goes back to the 1800s, they had a local chapter when I lived in New York and were involved in a lot of philanthropy and charity. Charity is a core belief of Masonry, not many people seem to realize that. She sure didn't. There was so much more she said but I was just in awe that an adult, an Elder even believed it. I think she's one of the oddest people I've talked to on there other than quicksand man who would just gurgle, he was unique.

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GirlVersusGame

@Ravix See it's hard for me to call them dumb as fudge because I can kind of understand some of it. If you aren't clued into parts of the world you have to rely on others to provide that 'news' and if they were getting that news from an unverified source they might have been caught up in that absolute media storm. So in a way I understand. I think some people needed a dartboard to feel involved in that how you say, I don't know the word but when the world is complete shocked and disgusted at the same time.

Why would people be so awful in virtual soccer? it's just a ball? I'd understand shooting someone and them getting annoyed because 'you killed me bruo, etc' but how do you fight over kicking a ball around. Isn't it just sportsmanship or is it more like the Football Factory and people are so passionate about an online team that want to virtual throw a brick at you or whatever.

Emotionally underdeveloped might be it. I'll tell you a funny story. One day we were all maybe ten of us in chat with microphones, they hear bubbles so they asked what I was smoking, I was in the hot-tub, then I realized most if not all of them got high pretty regularly. Maybe that was it too, I wasn't high I was getting comfortable. They were hearing the water going through the jets, it makes that pop pop bubble bubble sounds. You know those long glasses people put weed inside or whatever then light it and some how it bubbles? they thought I was doing that.

I know there was tonnes more in you comment, some kind of funny in a very strange and specific way, but my brain really is like a tired, wet bag of rubbish.

  • That is a really unique visual but it's fine really and strange, funny fits. I try to find humor in some of the more strange parts. I didn't think the duck was funny at the time I thought too much vodka and handguns don't mix, but now I can kind of see the funny side. Life at times is just very-very-very serious, events like that break it up a little. I don't think it's healthy to be around certain things but it's not my place to cause a fuss and funny events are a kind of rarity.

I'll tell you a funny story about the music industry though. Have you heard of Thin Lizzy? Years ago I was at a show and the venue had a box reserved for his Mum. She was a lovely woman, afterwards we went back to a party. But it was all old people, she hosted it and invited me along as some kind granddaughter or something, I don't know, but she was lovely and everyone said I should go.

I was there maybe an hour or so and really enjoying my time with all of this interesting old ladies, they'd seen some things and I enjoyed their warmness. I'd had a glass of wine and was feeling more open to conversation so I pointed to her necklace (she wore many) and asked was that Jesus in the picture.

Everyone and mean everyone in that room stopped, even the live violinist. She put her hand on my wrist and said 'do you do drugs child?', I said no thank you I haven't tried and I'm not allowed. And again silence, she went on to tell me that was her son, that he did drugs and it cost him his life and that I should never touch them. It was Phil Lynott's Mum, I actually felt like the ground was going to open and I'd drop through. She'd invited me back because she wanted to 'reach' a young person and spread her message but my mistaking her son for Jesus caught everyone in the room off-guard. The thing is I don't even know how the others heard me because the room was quite large and I speak very quietly by nature. But they somehow heard. When I told the guys on the tour they almost died from laughter and shock, so there's one for you.

I'll never ever live that down, they told everyone and it was the same reaction. I'd heard songs like Whiskey in the Jar but I rarely looked at music videos, I didn't know what he looked like. Afterwards I did because there was a statue of him outside a bar right by one of the hotels and there he was 'Jesus' in the bronzed flesh.

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MightyDemon82

@Ravix A celebration is definitely in order. More time dedicated to my actual hobbies and not wasting time looking at crap. Unless it's officially sanctioned crap that I think is worthy of my free time 😉.

@GirlVersusGame I think a lot of the time it may be that certain individuals just don't have dedicated hobbies and get taken in by all that rubbish online. That could have made a phenomenal read, inheriting a demon and gates to hell sounds like some real crazy supernatural Thriller type stuff. Quicksand man sounds luke a hoot. But yes there's some real special people out there.

Apologies for the late reply. Only one more day of work (next Tuesday) then off for 12 days.

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GirlVersusGame

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nessisonett

Got made redundant right before Christmas. The worst part is that due to the wonders of zero hours contracts, I’m not entitled to anything in the way of redundancy pay etc. Genuinely cannot find the energy to get back on the job hunt, it’s soul destroying out there, record unemployment and so many positions in my field have either evaporated due to Brexit, Covid and AI or are asking for unreasonable levels of experience for a junior position. Thankfully never actually having the money for a deposit on a flat means I can stay at home.

Tempted to pick up the writing again as it’s been a while but it doesn’t exactly pay the bills either, made a pittance writing articles for a bizarre Communist gaming website when I was at Uni and toyed with the idea of going into that but after I just missed out on a position at PC Gamer writing for the Hardware team I sort of saw it as a sign. If I thought there was any money in it then I’d channel the ADHD into something creative like a book or a script but I’m not convinced anybody would want to read the contents of this brain.

Plumbing’s just Lego innit. Water Lego.

Trans rights are human rights.

GirlVersusGame

@nessisonett Not to pry but how can companies get away with firing people right before Christmas? Are there no UK laws in place to protect people during a time of the year where they have to spend extra on things like lights and fuel? basic survival, and does zero hours mean they just call you up and say 'we need you today?' so there's no contract?

I’m not convinced anybody would want to read the contents of this brain.

  • There's a market for everything, David Lynch probably thought the same thing. He wrote all his screen-plays, people might not have gotten it at the time but look what he left behind. Have you considered self publishing?

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nessisonett

@GirlVersusGame Due to the massive loopholes in zero hours contracts in the UK, you technically aren’t an employee and can be let go without notice. The government were trying to get rid of them but I’m pretty sure they’ve caved.

Plumbing’s just Lego innit. Water Lego.

Trans rights are human rights.

Thrillho

@nessisonett Ah man, sorry to hear that, especially from what I seem to remember it taking you ages to get that position in the first place. Is that an immediate thing?

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seinfeldfanatic

Wishing everyone here a safe Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

today is going to be a fun day since its the annual family christmas get together with food potlock, white elephant gift exchange and some fun games to play which we get more prizes like a gift card or whatever.

i made a rocky road chocolate pie for today. hope my family members like it

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nessisonett

@Thrillho Yeah, due to the nature of the contract, it’s essentially just no more work available to me. Awful time of year for it. Just need to get back on the hunt in the new year I guess!

Plumbing’s just Lego innit. Water Lego.

Trans rights are human rights.

Werehog

@nessisonett Urgh. Real sorry to read that, buddy. Like you, I thought we were supposed to be getting rid of zero hours contracts. Nasty things. I was chatting to a friend yesterday about the current state of the job market and yeah, it sounds proper grim. The way the holidays have fallen this year, the country is likely gonna take a full two-week break, so I wouldn't even bother trying to engage until the second week of January. Hopefully that'll help you rest up and regain some energy, at least.

Additionally, and as @GirlVersusGame rightly said, don't ever sell your brain short. I thought exactly the same as you and recently discovered that I was wrong (albeit in a very small way but all the same, it gave me a temporary confidence boost when I needed it most). There's always a chance. Don't let a single setback close off any potential avenues. Everybody here knows you can write.

"If I let not knowing anything stop me from doing something, I'd never do everything!"

nessisonett

@Werehog Yeah, I’m just trying to enjoy the holidays for now. January is the time for new beginnings as they say.

Plumbing’s just Lego innit. Water Lego.

Trans rights are human rights.

Werehog

seinfeldfanatic wrote:

i made a rocky road chocolate pie for today. hope my family members like it

I'm curious, what was the verdict? Good, I hope!

This time of year is always a little scattershot and multi-part for me, but I'm definitely gonna be AFK for the next couple days, so I'll also wish everybody reading this the happiest of holidays, and hope you all get the games / consoles / peripherals / PSN credit / V-Bucks you wanted!

"If I let not knowing anything stop me from doing something, I'd never do everything!"

Kairuuu

I hope you all get to enjoy your respective holidays. I'm not really in the mood this year, in all honesty. Must be the Seasonal Affective Disorder kicking in. I've already made it abundantly to friends and family to not bother getting me anything this year because I'll just hand it straight back to them.

I'm starting to realise the older I get the fewer things I care about and the less I care about them.

Merry Christmas, creatures of the internet.

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GirlVersusGame

@Kairuuu S.A.D hits very hard. Keep yourself safe and Merry Christmas too

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