Been off the grid for a while now but in a better place so probably about time to dip my toe back in. All things considered, this is one of the only relatively normal corners of the internet left.
I feel like Push Square is the perfect size to foster a decent community. Big enough that there's regular activity and traffic, but not big enough to invite a lot of trollish types, who tend to hover around much more mainstream social media services instead.
HallowMoonshadow if you think taking the covers off is tense, try taking out the fan.
Oh good grief that sounds horrific to the clusmy clogs I am! Thank goodness it's gone ok and you seem to have no problems with your PS5 fingers crossed!
Welcome back to Push @nessisonett & @AgentCooper after your time away! Hope it did you both some good.
Good to see you too @Ralizah haven't seen you in the forums since I got back a few weeks ago!
Previously known as Foxy-Goddess-Scotchy
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"You don't have to save the world to find meaning in life. Sometimes all you need is something simple, like someone to take care of"
@HallowMoonshadow The trip was alright. Got to see a number of places in California for the first time, including San Francisco, which was fun.
I'm really hoping my PS4's hard drive stays functional, since I still have P.T. on it. Also, I have some games I want to play, and I'm not in the market for a next-gen console.
I'm... doing better, recently. There was a family tragedy in December, one that has had me out of sorts for months. It was the hardest thing we ever endured as a family. But, you know, you eventually just have to work through whatever pain you're in, because the world keeps turning regardless.
@nessisonett Good to hear you’re doing better and I hope offline life is going okay for you (and your mum!).
Welcome back to @AgentCooper too and I fully anticipate an upcoming name change now you’re back
And replying to @HallowMoonshadow from last week, I was joking with the comment about my baby. And I can’t imagine having 20 year old “kids” 😳 At the moment the thought of having one that sleeps through the night seems a distant enough thing!
I hope you both return to the PX game club as well! I think your still on the tag list Ness but I took you off Coop because you deleted your account. Let me know if you want to be re-added!
Had a busy day yesterday so just now getting around to Push Square forum updates. And what a great day, indeed! Wonderful to see @AgentCooper@nessisonett back in the fold. As was said, you definitely make the forums a better place. 🍻
Quick question for Coop, I’ve had Kentucky Route Zero on my watchlist for a long time and it’s on sale now. My backlog is quite a monstrosity so I’m not sure I’ll take a dive but perhaps I could be convinced. What was it about the game that really made it a highlight for you? It sounds like a very artistic and unusual game (which I can really get behind) but it seems difficult to describe. Just wondering your deeper (spoiler-free) thoughts on it. 😄
And just wanted to extend some words of encouragement @Ralizah after hearing (or rather, reading) how tough it’s been lately for you all. Although it sounds like you’ve found your internal reserves to endure and adjust, please accept my heartfelt (albeit virtual and belated) support nonetheless to you and yours.
“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”
@RogerRoger@Th3solution Thanks. I've avoided talking about it much on here, as, frankly, I know that it sucks being some internet person when some other internet person you like is clearly suffering.
When it comes to personal tragedy, you can either linger on it, cobble together some sort of personal defense mechanism to deal with (much easier for genuinely religious people, which I'm not), or just accept, as fully as you can, the indifference of the universe, and the impermanence of all things within it. I chose the third approach.
@Ralizah I hope you are well. I get that feeling too, like why talk about my problems because worse things are happening to nicer people. But to be honest, I think a lot of people on these forums understand that concept and are up for listening to (reading) all manner of problems, whether they are quaint, life shattering or somewhere in between.
Took me a while to kind of like break that pre(mis?)conception about talking about myself so publicly, even if I'm more or less anonymous on here. Even then, I go through bouts of candidness before withdrawing again, normally only coming back once it all gets too much to handle alone.
Well you're not alone. You have a built in support network here if you choose to use it, whether it's to share properly or just to shoot the sh** about random stuff to take your mind off things.
@ralphdibny I appreciate the genuine concern (as opposed to, you know, "thoughts and prayers").
The truth is I have an adequate support network IRL, so I'm definitely not just bottling up all of my emotions.
To remove the air of mystery from all this: last December, after a protracted and painful fight for survival in the hospital, my mother died. Or, rather, the day after Christmas, we had to make the decision to take her off life support. What put her in the situation in the first place was a freak accident that occurred during a totally normal procedure she's had done dozens of times before.
Anyway, I'll extend the offer back: if you ever need to talk about things, for any reason, you'll always find a sympathetic ear with me, and likely with many of the people here.
@Ralizah Looks like you’ve had a lot on your plate too. In my case, I’ve come to the conclusion that this place is about as good as it gets in terms of an escape from what’s going on elsewhere, whether that’s grief or similar. Seeing that this place always holds together is a good reminder that life does go on.
@nessisonett Life does go on. The longer we live, the more we suffer. That's true of even the most privileged people in the world. So you have to find spaces you enjoy to even out the balance.
@Ralizah this feels like a massive understatement but damn that sucks. Really sorry to hear it.
I'm glad you got a good enough support network in real life too and youre not bottling things up.
I lost my grandad in January. I was actually going to write about it here after it happened because it was so intense and being there when someone died isn't something I had experienced before. But I waited it out because I actually thought it might be innapropriate to write here because it could be a bit triggering. It's weird ya know, I literally had no idea what to expect because it's such a taboo subject that nobody talks about. But it ended up being one of the most profound experiences of my life.
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